Saturday, January 28, 2012

Sexual ethics.

First and foremost, I want to say that I find human's aversion to sex to be rather perplexing as well as outright fucking retarded. It really bugs me that humans not only hate or are embarrassed of their own sexuality, but that they have the audacity to hate other people for their sexuality. Basically if you aren't a uniform racial, heterosexual, who is attracted to living, human, adults you are labeled a pariah, hated, despised. Never mind whether you actually act on your urges, or even whether your urges actually harm anything even if you did act on them. You are hated. Take me for example. I am straight, as far as I know, I am attracted to various types of women, but I also have an attraction to little girls. People are willing to judge based upon just that fact alone. They are willing to ignore all other factors about a person, any good they do, their intelligence, everything and just hate them for that one thing. I am labeled a monster, a sicko, a danger to society, etc. Why? I have an unorthodox attraction. But of course, it isn't as unorthodox as people would have you believe.

It should come as no surprise that I have decided to fight for full sexual liberation. Nothing sexual should be illegal, unless it is non-consensual or it does physical harm to a child. Of course, there is an obvious difference between ethics and law, because some things, as nice as it would be to legislate them, can't be enforced. What follows is my code of sexual ethics, ethics I think everyone should follow.

Adult-adult sex: as long as what you are doing is consensual, anything goes. But there are some things that should be considered: Is everyone enjoying themselves? Is one side getting pleasured while the other side gets nothing? Sex is meant to be fun, not just for one person, but for both sides. Both sides should be enjoying themselves and trying to pleasure one another. There is nothing worse as a guy than to lick a girl's pussy only to find out that she refuses to give blowjobs. I'm sure the reverse is also horrible for women. So, if you are having sex with someone, give to them what they give you, at the very least. If they give you head, do it back, and try to do a good job. If they bring you to orgasm, bring them to orgasm. It's like the golden rule of sex.

Adult-child sex: If it occurs, it must, of course, be consensual. But with children every effort must be made to avoid causing any pain. Sex must not hurt. Otherwise it will be a painful memory rather than a joyous one. It is for this reason that I do not think that children should be penetrated, anally or vaginally. Either way can cause physical harm, and as such must be avoided. This does not stop children from penetrating an adult, if they are willing. So, what we are left with is mostly oral sex and other non-penetrative acts. With kids the golden rule should be even more important. Taking advantage of a child would be a terrible thing. A child should not just suck cock or eat pussy. They do not exist for that. If they pleasure you, you must, if you are ethical, do the same back. To be honest, if I were to engage in sex with a child (which I do not admit to doing, nor have I done), I would go the extra mile to make them feel good. It is a shameful thing that an adult would dare to have a child suck or lick them and not please them back. It's not cool between adults and even worse to do to a child.

While I am on the subject, I found this excellent post online. The person who wrote it is truly a genius, in my view, not a direct quote.

Suppose that you are a man (for now), and you have a preteen daughter. You also have a beautiful wife who works late. You stay home to take care of your child. Now, sometimes when your wife comes home from work you are asleep. You try to stay awake so you can spend time with her, but the child is tiring to take care of. Sometimes, while you are asleep, your wife crawls into bed and surprises you. She pulls your cock out of your shorts, or if you sleep nude, she just grabs it and starts sucking it. She wakes you up this way and you spend time together, having sex or otherwise enjoying each other.

Now it is late, and you have drifted off to sleep. You wake up to feel that familiar feeling of getting blown. She's doing a decent job, as if she's seen how a porn star does it and is imitating her. It feels good, so you don't complain or say anything, you just keep your hand in her hair and keep her going, encouraging her along. Now you are close to ejaculating. Your wife lets you choose normally. You can take the blanket off and give her a cumshot to the face/breasts or in the mouth. or you can just let her suck you until you cum directly in her  mouth. Either way this goes, it doesn't matter, but the cumshot case is a bit different here. Suppose you let yourself cum in her mouth. She's finished, and she pokes her head out of the covers. You are shocked. It isn't your wife. It's your own preteen daughter. She's looking into your eyes, and she swallows it. What do you do? Are you a monster now?

What would you feel afterward? Would you feel guilt? What about sexual attraction? You would. Every time you see her from then on you will imagine her little lips on your cock or your semen on her lips. It is unavoidable. Have you become a monster as a result?

Let's revisit the cunmshot case. Either way, face or mouth, you run into an interesting question. You've taken off the covers, you know who it is but you are a fraction of an inch from shooting cum all over her or in her mouth. Could you stop yourself? Or would you want to stop yourself? What if she said she wanted you to? Suppose you found out before this, but you were already about 90% there. Would you stop her? Or would you encourage her to finish? What would you do? How do you know that you wouldn't let her finish in that hyper aroused state?

Now, you obviously can't tell your wife in any case, even  if you did stop yourself or stop her. If you did there is no way she'd believe you. She'd think you made your daughter suck it. So now you are alone with her on the day after. Won't it be hard not to imagine it happening again? Now, what if she came to you that day and put her hand on your crotch, or began to pull your cock out again, asking if she could do it again? What would you do? Would you be a monster if you let her? Would you be wrong for wanting to let her?

Now I add to this. What if your wife were to walk in just as she was finishing sucking your cock, and instead of getting pissed, she smiled, and walked over to the bed, and gave your daughter encouragement, maybe even joined in next to her? In fact, let's rewind this whole thing back to the start and ask another question.

What if the self same wife and daughter came into the room late at night and both went down on you, with the daughter being encouraged and taught by the mother. You wake up to this. What do you do?

What if instead of you getting blown, you walked in and your daughter was eating your wife out, and both of them invited you in for a threesome?

My answers: I'd let her keep going no matter how early I found out, and if she wanted it the next day it would happen. If I woke up to my wife and daughter (which I don't have either of yet), I'd be happy and encourage it.

For women, reverse all of the genders, or as many as makes sense. What would you do in all these situations?

Back on the rails now:

Sex is a delicate subject. It should be treated even more so between adults and kids. Kids should know what it is first before doing it, and they should be as emotionally comfortable with it as you can make them. They should first be taught about sex, and introduced to both their partner's body and theirs. They should understand how all of it works, and have knowledge of it. If it is to occur, above all else, make it fun and make it a matter of consent.

Bestiality: as long as the animal is willingly doing whatever (licking,etc), I see no reason to care.

You can return the favor if you want. I don't know that I would.

Necrophilia:
They're dead. How do we know they give a shit? If they don't I see no reason why not.

Orgies: Don't leave people out. Especially don't tell someone who you know to be sexually desperate: "You can sit in the corner and fap". That is insulting, like a slap in the face. Bring them into it. Besides, more fun that way.

BDSM: Just don't kill anyone.


That's all for now.

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